I have a blu-ray project that I've just wasted 2 thermal 50 gig discs on.

What it is:

I have one of my weddings split into 3 sections on the disc.

1. menu has pre-ceremony - Reception on it.
2. menu 2 has the reception
3. menu 3 is bonus features.

On each of these menus I have:
the main video file
Also have copied that file and put it several times on the menu, added different in/out points to jump to main parts of the day.
Also have scene selection menu set up of about 5 pages based on main file.

So I have that for the two major menus, the bonus menu is just two files and a return link.

It works perfect when I'm previewing it in DVDA... does everything it's suppose to.
After creating the iso and burning it to blu ray disc.

when ever I click on the main chapters that I did... it just loops the menu I'm on.
when I go into the main file and return to the menu it goes back to the main menu you can chose what menu you want.

When I click on the reception menu it goes back to the main menu.
Nothing is right...
I've just wasted 2 50 gig thermal blu-rays and I'm not happy.

I've checked all my links and they are all correct.
What is happening here?
I played it on my sony blu ray 550 model. I've played on my blu-ray drive and they are identical.

Is there a way to play the iso file before burning it to a disc?
please help...