I know most of us at one time or another need to stick things together that we can take apart and Velcro has been our friend. Except it's not that strong, can come apart when we don't want it to etc.
I've finally found a supply of a 3M product that is the answer to my needs. This isn't a hook and loop fastening system. Instead it's 250 plastic "mushrooms" /sqin that interlock. Very strong, you've got to push pretty hard to get it to snap together, there's quite an audible snap as it connects. This is only for fastening two rigid surfaces however, say a battery or wireless mic receiver to a plate.
If nowhere else it can be bought from Radio Spares, stock number 458-7321. Down here it's AUD 200 for a 5 metre roll so it's not cheap. Still compared to any other solution to what I was trying to achieve it's more convenient and less expensive.
Bob.