I am having a tough time dealing with a dissolve. The first video has music (wedding) that I have tapered off at the end by adding points on the waveform and rubber banding them down. The second clip has no handles and when I overlap a short dissolve it brings up the music from the first clip because that is now transitioning its audio with the second clip. The other issue is with no handles I lose the first word or two on the second clip (it's a wedding so that isn't good).
Any suggestions how to deal with this situation?